We can only progress in life, if we make changes. Many people hate making changes even though it can bring about positive life changing events. Being stuck in your current negative circumstances can feel like a black hole. Changes can be scary and you may feel that once you make a change that you will fail. You may also feel that you don't deserve a better life. Failure and doubt are the main reasons why people avoid change. People that fear change build walls to avoid it. When you are resistant and stubborn to change, you are only allowing yourself to waste away in your current negative situation. People that avoid change are often holding on to a door that has already been closed. For example, when you cling on to a job or relationship that is completely unfulfilling, you are just blocking yourself from finding happiness because of your fear of change. Happiness can only come when you accept that a complete change is needed to move forward into the possibility of happiness or love. Without the risk of making a change to better your situation, you will be forever stuck. Taking the risk for happiness is always better that doing nothing. Even if the change fails, it will still leave you with a lesson that you were meant to learn in order to move forward in life. By following your intuitive thoughts rather than block them, you can reach for what will make you happy and fulfilled. Patience is needed in making changes. Change does not come instantly and can take work. But making steps towards positive life changes are always better than staying stuck in your present unfulfilled happiness. Change is a good thing, so take the first step towards it, be patient and happiness will come to you.