The way in which you look at the world, usually determines how you live your life. As someone who has be through some really low points in my life, and then turned them in to some extremely positive moments I can attest to this. No matter what, we will all have low points in our lives such as losing a loved one or going through a failed relationship that meant the world to you. These moments when our world comes crashing on top of us, it allows us to do one of two things. You can either use the pain from failure or loss as motivation, or let that life changing moment ruin you. I used the loss of loved one as an event that would be my motivation for finally living the life I wanted to live and not letting any moments to make my dreams come true pass me by. If you look at loss as a way to rebuild and go after what you always wanted, you will always end up in a better place than where you started. The next time something bad happens to you, stop, breathe, and think about what this moment could do for you and not what could have been. Let the negative event be the game changer in your life and not the game over.